Reflections and Intentions…Part One
As the young’uns, childless, and empty-nesters on my Facebook chime in 2014 at fun locations, Big Daddy Orange and I just put Tangerine down to bed at home. Ā I can’t think of any place I’d rather be. Ā It is Tangerine’s second New Year’s Eve. Ā Check out what a difference a year makes! Ā Can you believe 2013 shrank his suit?! š
The difference is not just in physical size of course. Ā Man, last year I was not in a good place.Ā Last year at this time, Tangerine was a little over two months old and I was STILL recovering from the C-section I never wanted and the infection that made it all oh so worse. Ā While my postpartum depression was in full swing almost all year, I am thankful that I did have MOMENTS of clarity – and one of those was last NYE.
My husband and I have both agreed this is our least favorite holiday of all time. Ā I’m not sure if I hate New Year’s because I love Christmas so much and it just stinks to be right past it? Ā Or maybe because it always meant going back to school. Ā Perhaps it’s due to it being a partying holiday which I was never part of as a teen or college student (I unfortunately made up for lost time in my early-to-mid twenties…). Ā I think mostly, though, I despise the way NYE feels. Ā It feels uncomfortable. Ā Looking back on one year while looking ahead to another. Ā It’s just too scary for thinkers like me who usually reflect all the time anyway, and it feels like I need to do it extra tonight or something! Ā Yuck.
Not to mention it is a lot of pressure! Ā We celebrate New Year’s Eve like it sets the tone for the entire next year. Ā So when I’ve had a crappy NYE…I feel pretty defeated already. Ā “It’s all over. Ā Going to be another terrible year!”. Ā I only jest...a little bit. Ā Sure, all holidays can involve this pressure to make it perfect, but ugh…there is just something about this one for me. Ā Did you ever watch the NYE’s countdowns? Ā Listen to the statements the hosts make and watch the annoying people. Ā They are the worst, and just another reason why I can’t stand Carson Daly.
So anyway…last New Year’s, Big Daddy Orange and I didn’t bother dragging out the baby to be part of the celebration. Ā We avoided it like the plaque and made it pretty much like any other night. Ā That is why it was my favorite NYE ever. Ā We got to enjoy our little babyworld together and forget everything else. Ā This year, we are doing the same. Ā We are making shrimp, lobster tail, mussels (Go Chef Daddy Orange!), herbed goat cheese, KerryGold cheddar, and crackers. Ā I will get up with Tangerine a couple of times tonight as the fireworks and gunshots wake him up, me cursing the world under my breath. Ā Tomorrow, we will greet a jumping baby boy with “Happy New Year!” and I will make the “good luck” pork, sauerkraut, and black eyed peas. Ā Another perfect MOMENT. Ā If this is “getting old”, then color me geezer!
Whatever you are doing tonight – be it whooping it up at a big event, celebrating with a small group, watching the fun on TV, or forgetting about it all together – I hope you can avoid the pressure of tonight dictating a tone for your next 365 days. Ā Ignore the “fresh starts” and “clean slates”…you can choose to have those any day you want, because EVERY DAY is a new one and a new chance to create the MOMENTS you want.
But Happy New Year anyway, if you’re in to that sort of thing.
—Check Out Part Two Here – “What are you taking away from 2013? Ā What are you leaving behind?”—
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NOT my favorite night either. Can only remember ONE NYE in my 62 years where I had fun. That was with Ed & we took a bus to our favorite restaurant, had good food, made friends, drank lots of champagne, & felt like hell the next day.
I loved this too!! I myself have always loved NYE! For me it is kinda like a fresh start but I actually wake up like that as well, “today is a new day”! everyday! I love it bc it’s a night of fun, good eats, late night, family and friends and my favorite part GAMES!! I’d much rather spend my NYE at home or a small get together at someones house then in a bar!! Corey and I have spent 2 or the 3 NYE together at home just us and the doggies and I wouldn’t have had it any other way! <3
Preach on girl!
Love ya, Meggie
Thanks so much, Meggie! Love you too š